You shouldn`t settle for anyone

11.10.2017

When it comes to dating, you need to know that it isn`t the best thing to just settle with anyone. People put more thought in choosing their newest Amazon product than choosing their new relationship. Everyone is such in a hurry when it comes to romance. You tend to jump in a relationship with anyone that tends to show interest in you.

The right partner will make your romantic experience better and this is why you have to search for him or for her. We are individuals that have our own values. Being romantic selective won`t make you a jerk. It will only make you a person that knows exactly what he want. You should know that settling will hurt you in the long run and this is why you will need to think a lot before getting the right match for you.

Men usually settle because of guilt. They feel like they will hurt a woman`s feelings by breaking things off. Another reason why they usually settle is because of the physical attraction. You stay with a girl because she is extremely attractive and not because of the emotional connection. Men also tend to settle because of jealousy and control or even because of the fear of being alone. You are afraid that you may not get a girlfriend like her.

Women usually settle because they have the pressure from friends and family. Another reason why women settle is because of the biological pressure and even the societal pressure. Media, music and movies tell you that being desired by men is what makes you valuable. If you are single, you must be unattractive.

You should think if you are physically attracted. Another thing that you have to know is if they respect you. Healthy relationships are built on care and even on compassion. You should also think if you want to be with that person or if you need to be with her. Another question that should pop in your head regarding the right person is if you dated enough. This question is a great one especially if you are inexperienced in dating. If you don`t have an experience is hard to tell if you truly value your partner. You should always explore the options you have and see the differences with your own eyes. Experience will show you how to be a better partner for the right person.